In Sanskrit HOLAK means half baked/roasted shami grain like barley, wheat, etc. p246, Arya Parva Paddhati- Pt Bhawaniprasad. [ http://vedickranti.in/books-details.php?action=view&book_id=96 ]. Holi is the hindi apbhransh ofthe sanskrit word holak.
Ayurvedic benefits of holak : In spring/vasant the glaciers melt and increase water in the rivers. Similiarly, body fat melts and enters the blood stream. If left unattended, it will create common cold etc. Holak grain reduces kapha and fatigue and increase a little vata. [Bhav prakash]. This also signals the start of eating of sattu [roasted gram and barley] in Aashad/summer to reduce pitta, etc.
Why don’t we eat it alone? Rigved says ‘Kevalagho Bhavati Kevaladi’ or he who eats alone is accumulating paap/bad deeds. Similiarly sage manu [3.118] admonishes the person eating alone.
Why should the arya people [especially farmers] be happy to receive the aashadhi [saadhi] harvest ? Because this harvest is seldom lost even during famine!!
Russians too celebrate this festival as maslenitsa . http://rbth.ru/arts/2013/03/11/maslenitsa_russians_start_celebrating_pagan_spring_festival_23631.html
http://www.squidoo.com/russian-spring-festival
UK pancake festival.
http://www.timeout.com/london/things-to-do/pancake-day-in-london
Other pagan pre Lenten festivals in different countries are:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carnival
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mardi_Gras
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swabian-Alemannic-Fastnacht
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslenitsa
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pancake_Day
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shrove_Tuesday
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baklahorani
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khamis_el_sakara
Clothing: Clothing can be changed after holak to the light coloured cottons so that one can enjoy summer.
Relationship management: On this day enemies can embrace each other and make a new beginning of friendship.
Playing holi with women : It is not allowed. Did Lakshman ever look at Sita above her feet? How then, can we touch other women on the pretext of coloring them?
Alcohol and other drugs: Not allowed. Do these things improve our intellect or body?
What about Prahlad and holika burning? That is a story.
What should we throw on others? Throw gulab jal or any other jal made from flowers. This will give money to the indian flower growers rather than the chinese communists.
Can we do a yagna [ in sandhya kal] ? Of course swargokamo yajet!
What one act play should be enacted? I suggest Abhijyan Shakuntalam, etc rather than sexually suggestive material which destroys deva and devis alike.
Namaste
vedic festival holi is very pious and wheather changing religious festival of aryan (pious People)in Arya vart and vedic yajan (yagya havan was must)
Your views are very broad and right about holi .today bHindus are celebrating celebrating in wrong way. Only HULLERBAZI is going on.We must adopt VEDIC WAY